Just Not That Into Massage?

You came across this blog because you are already likely interested in massage.  But, how about the people who don’t want to get a massage?  Once they happen to get one, I guarantee they will love it!  But, how can I convince them that massage is good for them before they actually receive one? 

I understand table massage can be intimidating and invading privacy because I myself didn’t like to be undressed to get a massage.  But, in a chair massage, you are fully clothed.  I have offered free chair massages at a health food store.  Surprisingly, most of the people, who were there buying pricy health products, were not interested in a free massage.  Some of them were interested, but in a hurry.  I first thought: Are they embarrassed to receive a massage in public, or just trying to be polite not to take advantage of a free offer?  Are they afraid I will try to sell something later?  But, I finally accepted they were JUST NOT THAT INTO MASSAGE.  I couldn’t still help thinking about “why?”  I came up with possible reasons. 

My Three Guesses:

1. Massage has never been in their minds: They don’t know about benefits of massage, and don’t necessarily want to learn about it unless doctors recommend it. 
2. Massage is for those who have problems: They don’t think they have to get a massage because they don’t have any pain, stiffness, and etc.
3. Touch makes them uncomfortable: They are not used to being touched by a stranger.  Touch will tense them up, not relaxing.

I even thought about what can be done.

Solutions:

1. More widespread, valid endorsement for massage therapy from a medical community as a whole.
2. Re-education: Massage is enhancement of your health and wellness (like taking vitamins), not “a treatment” you need.
3. Re-education of touch: You benefit greatly from massage to get used to positive touch and learn how to relax.  It will change the quality of your life.

Maybe, I can’t change their mind, ever.  But, I will continue to try to spread the wonder of massage.  If you know somebody who doesn’t want to get a massage, please leave me a comment!