Jan 31, 2015

FAQ: Does a massage therapist tell me what’s “wrong” with me, and “fix” my problem?


Massage therapists are NOT allowed to diagnose any conditions.  Although more and more massage therapists work in clinical settings, they can only assess the condition, apply “the manipulation of the soft tissues” appropriate for the condition, and possibly suggest self-care you can do at home (the scope of practice varies by state).  Massage therapists cannot say and shouldn’t imply that you have “carpal tunnel syndrome,” for example. 

Some comments from people and even other massage therapists have caught my attention.  It is getting obvious to me that we were taught somewhere that we are “bad” if we have pain, knots, stiffness, or any other soft tissue problems.  It seems to be treated as a disease.  We even label the shoulder or any part of the body which gives us troubles, as “the bad shoulder.”

I understand you can’t help asking this question: “Do I have a knot there?”  It is a natural desire to know the cause of the issue because it’s supposed to be “bad” and should be treated.  Some people take it almost personally, but get relieved to know that many other people have the same problem.  Others seem to give in to the fact as “I-have-lots-of-knots-in-the-shoulder-you-will-see” and are even apologetic as if they did something wrong.    

I started to wonder if massage therapists are the ones educating their clients that they have “bad” knots or “bad” shoulders, so the therapists have to “fix” them.  I was taken aback when one lady told me that her massage therapist vulgarly said her body was “messed up (not the exact word),” so she “had to fix her.”  I wonder if playing a doctor really makes anybody feel better and positive about their body and themselves. 

I believe any massage therapists intend to help their clients feel better.  It’s just that my approach is different (A Holistic Approach explains how my view changed).  First of all, I do not judge no matter how the condition is, by tightness, the numbers of knots and etc.  I accept as it is.  I only feel for them for their discomfort and frustration.  Secondly, I try to use only positive expressions, and avoid negative words, especially “bad.”  I want each of my session a positive experience.  Human body has the innate power to heal itself to maintain equilibrium called “homeostasis.”  As I always emphasize, the body and mind are strongly connected.  My goal is to offer them confidence that they are in charge of their body and can go through a positive change.  I am only here to help, not to “fix.”